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| Dearest Hayek Family, I am sitting hear engulfed in the website you have so beautifully put together. Almost a year ago I had the pleasure of meeting your beloved Libby. It was by chance that I made it to a friends Silpada party in December 2006. At the time, I was about half way through my first pregnancy. I walked in the party late and was immediately greeted by Libby. She told me what Silpada was all about and asked about my baby bump. About an hour later, I knew I had made a fast friend. I was hooked on Silpada and hooked on Libby. She told me about her sister in law and how she got her into Longaberger and now Silpada. She told me about her children and how great her job was for giving her enough time to be a mom. She convinced me Silpada may be something I could do. So, I placed my order, took a ton of information about selling Silpada and told Libby I would talk to her after the holidays.--- A few weeks later, the host of the party called and said that my order was in, but with her deepest regrets, she wanted me to know that Libby had passed unexpectedly from a brain aneurysm. I could not believe my ears, I just didn't see how someone so healthy and vibrant that I had talked to just weeks before, could be gone. I immediately thought of the conversation we had about her family and how important spending time with her kids was to her, and it made my stomach turn to think that she had been taken from them. I didn't know them, didn't really even know her-but my heart truly was aching. I sat that night and looked at the information she had given me, looked at her handwriting, looked at her phone number-and wondered how this could be. Libby stuck to me. I knew from the moment I met her that she was special. I knew that there had been noone she had met that did not like her. She was one of those people that was just good. You felt it when you looked at her and you heard it when you talked to her. And every time I looked at my Silpada jewelery since that day, I have thought of Libby and her family. I chose not to sell Silpada at that time because every time I looked at the book I thought of her and her family and their devastation. Now, present day, I have a beautiful 8 month old daughter. I think often about Libby since my little girl was born. There were things we talked about at that party almost a year ago that now tug at my heartstrings since officially becoming a mother. A friend offered me a Silpada book the other day and I looked through. I remembered Libby and the interest in me she sparked. I called the 1-800 Silpada number to get some sales representative information and mentioned Libby. The woman immediately knew who I was speaking of and said that Libby's sister-in-law would love to talk to me. So, I gave my number and hung up with lingering thoughts of the Hayek family. Since then, I have received a call from Robin, Libby's sister-in-law and best friend. I have learned that Jeffrey, Robin's son and Libby's nephew, also passed. I am shocked that such devastation can exist in one place. I had a wonderful conversation with a woman I have never even met-yet I feel like I have known for years. I told her that I am in the medical field as an MRI technologist. My job is to find things that are wrong with people in hope that they can be fixed before it is too late. I do MRAs of the Brain on patients with family history of aneurysm and patients with unexplained headaches-looking for but rarely finding blood vessel abnormailities. When I do find a positive case, the patient is ushered into surgery to, typically without complication, repair the aneurysm so that it can not rupture. The patient lives a normal life every day after. I wish I could have been part of the process that could have saved Libby's life. I suppose everything happens for a reason and maybe God knew Jeffrey was going to need company. I am sure Libby was waiting with open arms. My connection is very minute, but with deep feeling. I will pray for the Hayek family both for their losses, but also their gains. They are surrounded by amazing people and I hope to become a part of it. All my love and prayers. Paige Burkhardt. Tuesday, Oct 30th 2007 |
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| My son, Griffin is Jeffrey's grandma Diana's Godson. Griffin and Jeffrey are about the same age, and both share an amazing love of baseball. Through the years, Diana has always shared stories about Jeffrey to Griffin and vice versa. Griffin knew that Jeffrey and his family were watching him online when he played in a big tournament in Cooperstown, 2006. This past summer, Griffin's team was once again in Cooperstown. Griffin had seen that one of his favorite baseball players always wrote his grandparents initials on the mound before he pitched. Griffin decided that he would do this as a way to honor Jeffrey, his baseball brother. The first game at Cooperstown, Griffin was pitching. He wrote "JRH" on the mound and then proceeded to pitch - flawlessly! He pitched two innings and struck out the side both innings! When it was his turn to come up to bat, two runners on, he hit the ball to the wall, cleared the bases with a double. After the game, Grif told my husband and I that when he came out to pitch, he took a deep breath, and said to himself "ok Jeffrey, help me out" and then a butterfly flew by. He said the same thing when he was up to bat, and another butterfly flew by. By the second day of the tournament, all of the boys on the team knew about Jeffrey and the butterfly. The parents were amazed, that in all 10 games that the team played, there was always a butterfly flitting around the dugout. Never on the other side of the field! All of the boys said a prayer to Jeffrey before each game - and by the end of the week long tournament, every boy on the team had hit a homerun - some boys hit several! The Coyotes ended up with a 10 - 0 record and won the Cooperstown championship - but only after a beautiful butterfly flew through the dugout before that last game. Robin, Brian, Bailey and Evan, our prayers are with you everyday. May God continue to grant you peace. Jeffrey has become such a part of Griffin's life - he knows that he is right there when he needs him. Julie Canning Tuesday, Oct 30th 2007 |
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| Hey guys. Lexie and i were just looking at the website and were thinking of you. We are so sorry about your loss. Please let us know if you need ANYTHING!! Love You Lots, Lexie and Taylor Sunday, Oct 28th 2007 |
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| Dear Hayek Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I think of you often. You are in my prayers. With love, Susie (Musteric) Nield Saturday, Oct 27th 2007 |
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| "Jeffrey Hayek.... " In my imitated Movie Voice. I love you Jeff! Our whole family misses your high pitched laugh.. your big bright smile... Your eagerness to play.... Your great arm that had potential written all over it... And most of all, your friendship. I know you are with us everyday looking over us. God Bless! Bob Ryder Thursday, Oct 25th 2007 |
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| Happy Birthday Jeff! You are remembered today and always. We love and miss you big guy. The Mangiafico's Wednesday, Oct 24th 2007 |
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| Robin, Brian, Bailey and Evan -- I think of you guys every day and hope that you are doing okay. As always, you are in my prayers -- expecially this week. Many of my family and friends who know you ask about you often and send their love and good wishes. I will be singing Happy Birthday to Jeff tomorrow and know that he is aware of all the love everyone has for him. I would love to see you soon and just give you all hugs. Love to all of you, Karen and George Tuesday, Oct 23rd 2007 |
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| I had the pleasure of sitting between your beloved's grandparents Julio and Diana on a flight into Baltimore. I have children, grandchildren, and a red-headed grandson turning 10. My heart aches for your sudden and totally unexpected loss. As your pain heals you will rejoice that Jeff is in Glory. Your pain is too great for me to understand because like many I can't even think of such a thing happening to me ... it "short-circuits" my mind. Praise God for giving him to you; praise God for your love and experiences with him; praise God for taking him into his glorious kingdom to spare him the woes of this world. My love and prayers go out to you. I will offer up your beloved Jeffrey and your entire family in prayer at Tuesday's mass (10-23)at St. Joseph's here in Taneytown. Our pastor is Monsignor Martin Feild. Live every day to the fullest, laugh and be happy again for the sake of your family and for the sake of Jeffrey's beloved memory. Friday, Oct 19th 2007 |
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| Dear Hayek family, Hi,my name is Paul Cesarini. I met your mom and dad while doing a job for them here in So. Cal. last year and had a great time meeting them and (as usual for me) talking about family. They are so proud of all of you and have lots of pictures up around the house. I have three kids, too. Daniella 8, Francesca 6, and Joseph 4. When I went back recently for more work they told me of Jeff's passing and of all that has happened since. I want to extend our deepest sympathies and let you know that you have been in our prayers for the comfort that only God can give when we lose one so young. I lost my first cousin, Donny when only 18 and then his sisters son (also 18) and her other son still living but severly brain injured. There is no making sense of tragic loss, but you have obviously chosen a wonderful opportunity for a memorial for your son! We will give to Jeff's fund as we are able, with the hope that his memory will bless and encourage others to strive for the better. We love baseball too! The girls both play softball and Joe played his first T-ball league this summer. I have gone on long enough. May you find Grace and Comfort as you travel this road. Look for the opportunities to bless and comfort others. We will continue to pray for you during the upcoming holiday season, as I know it will be difficult. Press on, and in the immortal words of Winston Churchill " Never, never, never give up!" Best Wishes, The Cesarini's Wednesday, Oct 17th 2007 |
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| Hey Robin, This is your favorite Mammographer, Terry, I just heard about your son's loss. I am so sorry. I can't image what you and your family are going thru. If you ever want to go out, need to get any thing off your chest, please let me know. Even though we only know each other a little bit we made a connection . Love to you and your family . Terry Wednesday, Oct 17th 2007 |
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| Hi Robin and Brian, I am so saddened by your loss. I don't know if you recall Robin, but I lost my son too. We were only blessed with 19 months of his life. But I think its a great idea to have a ballfield built in Jeffrey's honor. I will be contributing, so you will see a donation from Cheryl Lawrence (remember I almost got fired because Governor Schaefer didn't know my other name, you saved my job.) Have you thought about publishing Brian's journal, I could not stop reading it. Love you all and I will keep you in my prayers. ( I am a minister, now.) God Bless, Swakuu Wednesday, Oct 17th 2007 |
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| Hello Robin and family! I am a mother of a child who reminds me of your Jeff! Although I am speaking of a daughter, her life from her first days have been nothing less than exuberant! My heart breaks for your loss but I am excited about all you are doing to honor Jeff by giving such joy to others in his name and honor. I am thrilled to be offered the opportunity to contribute to Jeff's Field! As a Silpada sister, I wish you hope, peace and God's gentle hand to hold you through your journey ahead until you are with Jeff again. Prayers continue...Joan Narkum in PA Tuesday, Oct 16th 2007 |
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| Dear Robin, Your website is gorgeous and the tribute to Jeffrey is a wonderful legacy you and your family leave to him. I am grateful I know of your cause and hopeful it brings happiness and education to many people. I am so sorry for your loss and wish you the best in your efforts. Love Always, your Silpada Sister, Martha Price, Dublin, OH. Monday, Oct 15th 2007 |
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| As a mother myself I can only imagine there are no words to comfort so please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. The field you are building is such a great idea and I am sure it will be loved by all. A Silpada sister from Kansas, Carolyn Monday, Oct 15th 2007 |
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| My grief is unspeakable for your family Wednesday, Oct 10th 2007 |
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| Hope things are going well with plans for the field. Monday, Oct 8th 2007 |
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| I just read everyone of the messages and they are beautiful. Such an outpouring of love for your family. It is wonderful to know that there are people in this world who truly care about you and are there when you need them. Someday we will visit Jeffrey's field and know how much this idea has helped other children find their dreams. You are such a courageous family to share this time of sorrow with others. We send our love to the Hayek and Bergantino families. <>< Joanne & Joe Musteric Monday, Oct 8th 2007 |
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| Hi Robin, I'm your mom and dad's neighbor. I simply love them so much therefore I love you and your precious and darling little family. I knew about your loss from Julio when your mom was back there helping you guys. I just cried. When I saw your mom for the first time since she had been back I just ran to her and grabbed and hugged her. My prayers have been for you and your husband. That together strong as a couple you find what ever inner strength to get through ONE DAY AT A TIME. I am going to contribute to Jeffrey's ballpark not only as a memorial for Jeffrey but also as a tribute to your family. I hope to one day meet you the next time you come out to visit your parents. Please know truly how much we care and will keep you in our prayers. I love the pic of your son where he is looking straight into the camera with his red hair and sweetest smile. In Christ We Trust, Sincerely, The Landrigan Family Sunday, Oct 7th 2007 |
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| Dear Ones, I was made aware of your family and circumstances by Wendy Hazlett of Grand Rapids through an e-mail...I have never met Wendy, but she is a caring Silpada sister and has chosen to get involved. My heart is touched by all the photo's, memories and personal expressions of love...I just want to say I am so very, very sorry for your horrendous loss. I am grateful for the opportunity to be a part of building Jeffreys dream ballfield....I will be sending a contribution as Wendy has made provision, also, for that. May the rich love of God and the awareness of His Presence surround you and help you, I pray in Jesus Name. Lovingly, Carol Trotter Saturday, Oct 6th 2007 |
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| Know that you & your family are in my prayers. As a mother, I am truly saddened by the loss of your son. I have a 16 year old daughter and a 12 year old son, they are truly gifts from God. May you find the strength that you need in your faith. I wish you the best of luck with your endeavor. Sincerely, Rachel Fouts Thursday, Oct 4th 2007 |
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| I'm a fellow Silpada Rep from Florence, Kentucky and I just wanted to say your website for your son is gorgeous. I wish your family well and thanks for sharing your story. Thursday, Oct 4th 2007 |
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| Hello, I am a mother of 4 in Baytown, Texas outside of Houston. I cannot describe to you how much and on how many levels the story of your son and you has affected me. As I have just now heard your story and seen your website, the tears and grief cannot stop. I can tell Jeff was a very very special boy and dearly loved by his family and all who knew him. It is apparent God blessed him with a good life with loving parents. As short as that life was, he had a better one in his ten years than most people ever dream of. I am so impressed with his parents by sharing this precious child's story with us and finding the positives through their incredible loss. I cannot imagine going through such an experience and loss and finding the strength to do what this incredible family has done. Thank you for reminding us that every moment we have together is precious, life is precious, our children are such miraculous gifts and that we need to focus on what is truly important in life and not get caught up in the petty little things of being a parent that seem to distract us everyday from the gifts of our children instead. I look forward to donating to Jeffrey's dream and just wish he could have had it sooner so he could have enjoyed it personally. Susan Sauls Thursday, Oct 4th 2007 |
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| I am so touched by what you've done to preserve Jeff's short life. As a parent myself, I can only imagine the pain you've been through in the past few months, but this is a truly beautiful tribute to his life. My prayers are with you that Jeffy's Field will become the field of his dreams -- and yours. When I have some extra funds I'll donate toward your dream. In Silpada Sisterhood, Melissa Josef, PA Thursday, Oct 4th 2007 |
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| I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. I will keep you Robin and your family in my prayers. Sincerely, Lea Anne Mallot Wednesday, Oct 3rd 2007 |
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| My condolences are with and your family. My Silpada Jewelry upline, Wendy Hazlett, sent me an email regarding your son. It does touch me deeply, as I have a five and thirteen year old who also want to be baseball stars. They both in Little League and traveling teams. My thoughts and prayers are with you, With Deepest Sympathy, Jamie Doyle Wednesday, Oct 3rd 2007 |
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| I am so sorry to hear about what happened. If you are still collecting for the fund when I get my finances back in order, I will definitely donate. Luckily my two boys are grown and happy men now. I feel thankful of that. How you must hurt. Love (a Mesa AZ Silpada Sister) Linda Bendele Wednesday, Oct 3rd 2007 |
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| I have just received an e-mail from a fellow Silpada rep.(whom I don't know) learning of Jeff and his love of baseball and your desire to create a baseball field in his name. I am especially touched by your story as I have 4 boys, all who love and play the great game of baseball, and one who is 10 yrs. old who played for the Pirates. I send this e-mail to let you know that not only do I intend to send a monetary contribution for this awesome cause, but to let you know that your family will be in our family's prayers. Peace to your family. Sincerely, Liz Chandlee Wednesday, Oct 3rd 2007 |
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| I paid off Jeffrey's Drum in Honor of his Memory from all of us here at Menchey Music. The payoff letter is being mailed today. God Bless your Family!!! You are all in our thoughts and prayers, Roxanne Henschen Menchey Music Wednesday, Oct 3rd 2007 |
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| My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep your chin up! You Silpada Sister in Washington Wednesday, Oct 3rd 2007 |
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| Dear Robin and loving family, I can't tell you how deeply saddened I am to hear of you and your family's tremendous loss. I am a friend of your mom's (she worked in the office next to mine) and I just heard. I pray the Lord brings you peace, comfort and guidance. Please know you will ALWAYS be in my prayers. I wish I could have met Jeffrey. From everything I've read he seemed so full of life and a happy kid. He will always be an inspiritation and a reminder of how valuable every day truly is. I'm so happy he had a life with you and his grandma Diana. If there's one thing I've learned from Diana it's how important her family is. May God give you the strength you need. Much love to you, Jennifer Ward Monday, Oct 1st 2007 |
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| May the road rise to meet you, May the wind be always at your back, The sun shine warm upon your face, The rains fall soft upon your fields, And until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of his hand. SMILE Smile though your heart is aching Smile even though it's breaking When there are clouds in the sky you'll get by If you smile through your fears and sorrows Smile there may be tomorrow You see the light come shining through If you light up your face with gladness Hide every trace of sadness Although a tear may be ever so near That's the time you must keep on trying Smile what's the use in crying You'll find that life is still worthwhile If you just SMILE God Bless your Family I am praying for you and I know this is hard on all of you. Monday, Oct 1st 2007 |
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