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i am one of jeff's friends. i've known him since first grade. In 1st, 2nd and 4th grade i've been in his class and we've always hung out together. In 4th grade we would play football at recess and at my tenth birthday party he slept over with some other friends. We stayed up ALL night and it was the best birthday party i've ever had. i am so sorry about what happened and i will always have a place for jeff in my heart. love, josh

Wednesday, Nov 28th 2007  

Diane and Julio, and the Hayek Family, It was my pleasure to meet you on my flight to Chicago. You are a very special and loving family. I felt so honored to be entrusted with such memories, joy and sorrow. I hope to hear from Diane and Julio in the nearer future and hope to someday meet more of this remarkable family. Thanksgiving is for giving thanks for all we've had, for all we have now, and for all we will have someday. My Sincerest Regards, Michelle Lazzaro

Friday, Nov 23rd 2007  

Robin & Brian, I just learned of this web-site through a co-worker that has a friend that is close to one of your friend's Robin. Small world. I know I have reached out to you recently but now I feel I can at least make a contribution to honor your son. I can not even imagine how painful losing Jeff has been for you both and how much you must miss him. I am just so sorry and know I am here if you ever need a friend - Susan Renner

Wednesday, Nov 14th 2007  

Robin, Brian, Bailey and Evan, our family thinks of you all of the time. Our son, Jay, Jeff's classmate and friend, speaks about Jeff often. In fact, Jay and Jeff played in the Oakdale band together. Jay played the clarinet and, of course, Jeffrey played the snare drum. In honor to Jeff, Jay made a decision to give up the clarinet and take Jeff's place in the band this year on the snare. Over the summer, we turned in the clarinet and picked up the snare set. As the summer went on Jay decided that maybe he wasn't right for the snare drum, but, in any event, wanted you to know that Jay, in his own little way, made an attempt to do this in the honor of his friend, Jeffrey. Your family is in our prayers. Thank you for all of the information that you have provided through this website. May God Bless You. Randy, Jennifer, Jay and Breanna Ullrich

Monday, Nov 12th 2007  

I was in Jeff's class in third grade and he was fun to have around. But the one thing I remember most about jeff is that every time I would see him he would be laughing! I remember once in third grade when we were in reading groups and Mrs. codichini was about to sneeze, and a kid named Ryan Shadoan yelled, duck! And jeff just couldn't stop laughing for the whole day! It was very funny. I also remember a time where we were going on a field trip and everyone had to pick one person that they would want to sit with on the bus, and I picked jeff, because I knew I wouldn't get in trouble with me sitting with him. So I sat with him on the bus, and we always had a little joke between me and him after the field trip. And the same thing happend, he couldn't stop laughing the whole day. For the rest of my life, I will always remember Jeff very clearly as a person who, likes sports, is funny, fun to play with, and he always had something funny to say. I miss him very much and he was a real joy to have around. Jay Ullrich

Monday, Nov 12th 2007  

Robin, Hi, it's your parents neighbor Gerri Landrigan. I feel so strongly that I am supposed to email you at this time. I was reading my new book by Joel Olsteen "Become a better you" we listen to him on TV before we go to church. You know I had back surgery in July and have to little children, my daughter Morgan in 16mo. and my son James in 3yrs. I have had so much back and neck pain that I could not even walk up to our church so we started watching Joel; he comes on at 8am on Discovery channel and 8:30a on WB network(channel5) for us. He is a simple worded man and you just know listening to him that his message is from the Lord. Anyway, I am writing you to let you know my husband and I think of you and your husband frequently. You guys MUST stay together holding each other up right now. Men and women cope differently! My husband goes into his mental "cave" when something stressful is going on in our life or home and I think outloud and expect the same of him (Jim). I realize that calling me or even emailing me right now is probably not on your abilities list. I see your Mom run to the phone every time it rings. Diane is so precious so kind and so squeezable and you are so blessed to have such strong and sensitive parents. I just yesterday was showing your parents our Halloween pics of our kids and I wispered in your Dads ear to keep himself healthy because Diane needs him as well as YOU! Of course I'm referring to his darn smoking. Did he listen...probably not but just so you know I care. Sincerely, Gerri Landrigan

Sunday, Nov 11th 2007  

I just learned about the website and I think it's a great way to remember Jeff. I think of you all the time. I didn't really know Jeff but I did know Libby and I miss her terribly. Sometimes when I'm out, I see someone who looks like Libby and for a second I think it's her...then I remember. My prayer for your family is that God will give you strength and peace through this upcoming holiday season. Denise Opishinski

Sunday, Nov 11th 2007  

To Jeff's family, Today my husband and I met Jeff's grandma at San Francisco Solano church in Santa Margarita, Ca. She was looking for last Sunday's bulletin as it recorded the mass said for Jeff and his family. Having heard your story we send our most earnest sympathy and prayers. Your tragic loss must be unbearable and so we pray that God will send you and your family His strength, courage and comfort. I send this message so that you will know that others care and are praying for you. God Bless and keep you, Mary & Dave Reinhard

Sunday, Nov 4th 2007  


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